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   Before I started high school, I was told that there are always going to be struggles here and there, and tests that God gives us. Already I have seen these tests multiple times. I know I have passed some, and done the right thing, and I also know that I have failed some.

   Right now I'm really stuck. There is a guy I met near the beginning of school and immediately I noticed how sweet he was and how we share many of the same interests. Well lets just say that he also took interest in me and soon I developed a big crush on him. As I kept liking him more and more every time I saw him, I started to see his true character. He says he is a Christian but doesn't always act like one. At this point most people would probably say... "just stay away from him from now on. Hes not a good influence." But I feel like I've gotten too deep already. He treats me like his girlfriend now. He tries to hold my hand and put his arm around me and kiss me on the cheek and at first I wouldn't have really minded (a little maybe) but now I just feel different. I somehow find my way of getting out of situations like this (like telling him I need to go talk to a friend or saying that I need to go somewhere" but, I just can't ever fully avoid it. If I were to tell him how I really feel he would think that I'm a complete jerk. I mean I did like him a lot at first and I know that he knew that. And now I suddenly stop liking him after getting to know the real him?? Totally considered a jerky move. But I know that this is what God wants me to do.

   I guess my final question is... how should I let this guy know that I really can't/shouldn't get into a relationship with him, without making him feel bad or making him hate me?

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Comment by Chloe Skinner on November 21, 2012 at 7:46pm

ok thanks :) and im not really sure if im allowed to or not. but it wouldnt be one of those things where I keep it a secret. I would surely make sure my parents were okay with it first

Comment by Chelsea Valentine on November 21, 2012 at 5:14pm

I would just tell him that you are not ready for any kind of relationship with him. Tell him you are just not comfortable with it. That's the truth about how you feel, but it doesn't give him the idea that it is his fault.

Comment by Chloe Skinner on November 21, 2012 at 12:10pm

thanks guys :)

Comment by Alysha Argot on November 21, 2012 at 9:18am

Of course, pray about it. If you feel that God is telling you not to be involved with him, then you need to tell him that. If he is really a Christian, then he will understand. It can be hard, but God will be with you and He will help you if this is what He wants you to do. Your friend might be upset, but if this is something God is telling you to do, you have to do it anyway. Galatians 1:10 says - "Am I now trying to win the approval of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ". Of course this doesn't mean you should be mean or rude, just tell him truthfully and gently. God knows what is best, and this will work out. Romans 8:28 says - "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose". Pray, and trust God in all things!

Comment by Hannah Marie DeForrest on November 20, 2012 at 8:33pm

I know that!!!!!!! I was taught this one time, if you dance with God, then he will let the right guy cut into your life! If God says this is the right man, then say yes to your friend!!!! Ask God to show you if he's the right guy and if he isn't to show you who is!!!

Comment by Chloe Skinner on November 20, 2012 at 6:58pm

the thing is he doesnt say we r "just friends" he tells me tht he likes me and he asked me out and i like him a lot but i dont feel like its right

Comment by Hannah Marie DeForrest on November 20, 2012 at 6:13am

I have a friend who treats me like this too!!!!!!!!! In love when he treats me like I'm his girlfriend even though we are just best friends!!!!!!! Its totally okay for him to treat you like you are his girlfriend. My friend and I always are deep with each other, but never come near even talking about sex! Your situation is totally fine! Just be careful you don't bring it too sex!!!! If he treats you the way he does, then he won't think you are a jerk!!!!!!!!!!! Just tell him that God is telling me to tell you that we can just be friends!!! Hope this helped!!!!

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